THE WELCH COMPANY
440 Davis Court #1602
San Francisco, CA 94111-2496
415 781 5700
rod@welchco.com
S U M M A R Y
DIARY: June 3, 2017 02:30 PM Saturday;
Rod Welch
Mother Lillian Welch memorial in Jacksonville, Oregon
1...Summary/Objective
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Mother Stricken Serious Affliction Hospitalized Providence Medical C
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0404 - Summary/Objective
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040501 - Follow up ref SDS 39 0000. ref SDS 38 0000.
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0408 - Progress
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040901 - Memorial service for mom at her church in Jacksonville, Oregon. We
040902 - drove up from San Francisco yesterday, and arrived OA 1700, reported
040903 - on 170602 1030. ref SDS 41 0O5I
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040906 - This follows up the letter to mom celebrating her 90th birthday, sent
040907 - on 120719 1722. ref SDS 5 PN6O
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040910 - Obituary written by Sally is on 170529 2038. ref SDS 40 AV6H
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041027 - This morning, Kathy and I went for a walk about 2 miles up Biddle
041028 - toward the airport, then returned, reported in case study on 160101
041029 - 0700. ref SDS 8 KB6O
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041032 - After the hike, found the wound on the right foot long toe was worse,
041033 - so drove across the freeway (I-5) to a grocery store and bought some
041034 - wound gel and bandaids.
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041037 - Kathy coordinated by cellphone with Amy on the family arriving for the
041038 - memorial service at 1500.
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041401 - Drove to Sally's house in Jacksonville.
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041404 - Visited with Sally's girls, Mary Heather and Katie, and met their
041405 - husbands, Justin and Ben.
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041408 - When we arrived Mike was asleep resting, and Justin was watching
041409 - television showing a golf tournament.
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041412 - Went outside and sat with Sally, Katie, and her husband Ben, who was
041413 - holding their new baby, Jovi. They also have a son, Joel (I think).
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041416 - Ben is now a preacher/pastor.
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041419 - He is familiar with the Bay Area and California, from having
041420 - travelled with a college baseball team.
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041423 - Seems to be quite an athlete, and was formerly a sports columnist.
041424 - Was fun comparing teams and players.
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041427 - Ben thinks the Yankees may not make the playoffs this year, but
041428 - expects they will be dominant again next year.
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041431 - Katie and Ben live in Bend, about 2 hours drive from Eugene, where
041432 - Mary and Justin live, and about the same distance from Sally and Mike
041433 - in Jacksonville.
041435 - ..
041436 - Ben said that he and Katie do cross-fit-training together. He was not
041437 - familiar with the Orangetheory company that has cross-fit-training
041438 - facilities across the country. Mentioned doing 1 workout on 170506
041439 - 0850. ref SDS 24 2H6F Ben was not aware whether Orangetheory is
041440 - active in Bend, but noted there is a lot of competition in this field
041441 - of fitness training.
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041444 - Related doing cross-fit-type work out with Orangetheory a few weeks
041445 - ago on 170506 0850, ref SDS 24 2H6F, and explained in the letter on
041446 - 170509 1146. ref SDS 25 2H6F
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041449 - Ben likes Tom Brady. He seems too young to compare with Joe Montana.
041450 - He remembered Montana was with Kansas City Chiefs for a year or so
041451 - before retiring.
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041454 - Katie said she had synvisc 3-injection treatment for one or both knees
041455 - nearly 2 years ago, and has not needed follow up injections so far.
041456 - This may indicate synvisc/Supartz are more effective on young bodies.
041457 - Explained I am hoping to make it through another month, when another 3
041458 - injection treatment can be done.
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041461 - Katie works in the ER, so may be able to compare notes some day when
041462 - there is more time.
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041465 - Rob and Joyce arrived, so visited with them.
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041468 - Sally showed the agenda for the service. It allocates 5 minutes for
041469 - Rob to memorialize mom. While we talked at Sally's, Rob said he was
041470 - up at 0500 this morning and went for a walk. He has been going over
041471 - in his mind what to say about our life with mom.
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041474 - Had a few minutes to throw a small ball with Mary's oldest son,
041475 - Landon. He is left handed, but seems to throw well from both sides.
041476 - The younger boy, Brannan, threw a few times, but lost interest.
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041479 - In the kitchen, Katie asked Joyce to feed lunch to her oldest son,
041480 - Joel, about 2. About this time, Mike woke up and came into the
041481 - kitchen. He volunteered to take over from Joyce to complete feeding
041482 - Joel Cheerios. As he walked through the kitchen, noticed he has KT
041483 - tape running vertically down each leg, spanning the knees. This
041484 - might be theraputic for recovering from knee replacement procedures
041485 - on both knees.
041486 -
041487 - [On 170605 1813 mentioned in letter to Sally, Mike using KT
041488 - tape for theraputic support of knee procedures. ref SDS 43
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041801 - Folks began leaving for the church. Kathie and I followed Rob and
041802 - Joyce. Rob seems lost at one point, so used Google GPS to get
041803 - directions.
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041806 - In the church, Ben, Katie's husband was on the stage playing a guitar
041807 - and singing. He seemed very talented. Caught up with Katie and
041808 - asked if she sings with her husband? Katie said she used to sing
041809 - with him regularly, but no so much lately. Suggested they likely had
041810 - gigs in local bars on Friday and Saturday nights, then Ben was
041811 - preaching to the flock Sunday morning. Katie seemed to accept this
041812 - weak attempt at humor.
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041815 - There were 2 big video screens on either side of the stage. Both
041816 - screens displayed a series of pictures in tandem. They were all
041817 - great. One was of Sally and mom, sort of leaning their heads together
041818 - in a professional pose. They looked terrific. Later at the dinner
041819 - after the memorial service, I asked Sally to send that picture.
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041824 - [On 170604 1933 received this picture attached to letter
041825 - from Sally; it was taken about 10 years ago. ref SDS 42
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041829 - Was terrific seeing a lot of the family. Met Rob and Marsha's 2
041830 - sons, Brian and Erik. They both look very healthy despite now being
041831 - over 40.
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041834 - Met Marsha, and gave her a hug. She was with her sister, and her
041835 - husband.
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041838 - Amy and Michael arrived with their daughters Simone and Mia.
041840 - ..
041841 - Patty and Pablito arrived.
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041844 - Julee and her mom, Lynda arrived. Julee looked great as usual. Lynda
041845 - is involved with tracing Welch ancestory, similar to Uncle Jim years
041846 - ago. Gave Julee my email address for following up.
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041849 - Julee said that she notified David, and also Travis.
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041852 - Evidently, Travis is retired from Special Forces in the military.
041853 - Julee seemed to say he works for Home Land Security in some capacity.
041854 - He is married and has 2 children (I think).
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041857 - A great many of mom's friends from church and other community
041858 - activities arrived. Met some of these.
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041861 - Sally was very busy greeting everyone.
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042201 - Pastor Larry called everyone to be seated.
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042203 - He praised mother and there were songs and prayers.
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042206 - Ben sang several songs - a terrific talent.
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042209 - Rob then talked extemproaneously for about 30 - 40 minutes eulogizing
042210 - mom. He was wonderfully eloquent, funny, and always interesting, as
042211 - he spoke with great passion about his love for mom. He made a number
042212 - of jokes, saying at one point, when he saw that Sally allocated him 5
042213 - minutes in the agenda, he assumbed that was a typing error, and it
042214 - intended to say 50 minutes.
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042217 - Took picture of Rob as he spoke from the pulpit...
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042221 - [On 170605 1813 letter to Sally with copy to Rob, Joyce,
042222 - Marsha, and others, notes Rob's heartfelt and splendid
042223 - eulogy for mom. ref SDS 44 IO3T
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042226 - After Rob memorialized mother, 2 women sang. One said that 20 years
042227 - ago mother asked her to sing at her memorial, so here goes! They
042228 - sang beautifully, like mom sang for us at home 60 years ago.
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042231 - Pastor Larry ended the service with the Lord's prayor.
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042601 - After the memorial, family members went to the old church for a
042602 - buffett dinner.
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042605 - There were more pictures on display of mother taken with family and
042606 - friends over her epic lifetime.
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042609 - Additionally, Patty took this occasion of mom's memorial service to
042610 - submit pictures of me with her and Kathleen. There was also a letter
042611 - I evidently sent to Mother Dorothy, when stationed in Vietnam during
042612 - 1968. Seems like these pictures and the letter may have been sent to
042613 - Patty by Bob Welch after Mother Dorothy died 10 years ago. Not sure
042614 - why Patty submitted the packet to me.
042615 -
042616 - [On 170605 1813 letter to Patty transmitting letter to
042617 - family commemorating memorial service for mom, and thanking
042618 - Patty for submitting pictures of her and Kath, and Millie.
042619 - ref SDS 45 MS42
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042622 - Sat with Rob and Joyce, Patty and Pablito, Simone and Mia.
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042625 - Joyce said her first husband had 3 heart surgeries, the first when he
042626 - was only 28. After the 3rd, he was driving somewhere with a friend,
042627 - and just died.
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