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Mother Hospitalized Heart Failure Trouble Breathing Bob Called Expla

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0403 -    ..
0404 - Summary/Objective
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040501 - Follow up ref SDS 10 0000. ref SDS 9 0000.
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0408 - Progress
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040901 - Bob was at the hospital until about 1930.  After he left, Patty and
040902 - her friend, JR, visited mother.
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040904 -                Arroyo Grande Community Hospital
040905 -                345 South Halcyon Road
040906 -                Arroyo Grande, CA  93430
040907 -                805 473 7650
040909 -  ..
040910 - Talked to Nellie, mother's nurse.  Mother is doing better than
040911 - expected.  Mother is anxious to get out of bed.  She said Bob is with
040912 - her in the room.  Nellie transferred the call.
040914 -  ..
040915 - Talked to Bob.  He confirmed mother is more active today.  Part of her
040916 - activity is to relieve pain and agitation from laying the same
040917 - position for an extended time.  A physical therapyst was schedule to
040918 - visit morning at 1100 to sit her up and help with training to cope
040919 - with her weakened condition.  However, the physical therapyst is 2
040920 - hours late, and Nellie, the nurse evidently cannot provide interim
040921 - relief for mother.
040923 -  ..
040924 - During the call, Bob said he needs to help mother sit up, so he put
040925 - the phone down, and there were sounds of Bob talking to mother helping
040926 - her change her position in bed to be more comfortable.
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040929 - Bob said mother wants to talk, but right now she is too weak.  He
040930 - feels mother should rest for awhile, then we can talk on a call back.
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040933 - Bob will be back at the hospital from 1400 to about 2000.
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040936 - Will call back OA 1700.
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041301 - Millie called back and talked to Bob.
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041701 - Robin called and talked to Millie.
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041703 - She had more details about Patty's difficulty with Bob, reported in
041704 - the call with Patty yesterday on 070102. ref SDS 10 Z87K
041706 -  ..
041707 - Patty called and explained to Robin plans to talk to Bob about
041708 - apologizing to make amends with mother for past issues between them,
041709 - and while is in a precarious position near death, a few days ago,
041710 - reported yesterday. ref SDS 10 Z860  Robin suggested that Patty not
041711 - have that discussion with Bob, especially while he is trying hard to
041712 - care for mother in this uncertain time for mother.  However, it turned
041713 - out that Patty had already left the message on Bob's telephone system,
041714 - but Robin did not know this at the time Patty told her about it.
041716 -        ..
041717 -       [On 070105 letter to Patty on family issues. ref SDS 11 H29G
041719 -        ..
041720 -       [On 070128 Bob asked about Patty coming for a visit.
041721 -       ref SDS 12 MV6G
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041724 - Similarly, Patty called Robin a few days later while driving up to say
041725 - good by to mother, and just after leaving Bob's place in Nipomo
041726 - following Bob asking her to leave.  She related again related plans to
041727 - write a letter to Bob, and Robin thought Patty meant she would write
041728 - after she got home and in the next few days.  Patty evidently called
041729 - Robin later after leaving the hospital and on her way driving down
041730 - South back home.  Patty told Robin some of the hurtful language in her
041731 - letter to Bob, which she had left at the hospital in mother's room for
041732 - Bob to read.  Robin thought this was language Patty was considering,
041733 - not something she had already written.  Robin suggested not writing
041734 - the letter, but Patty then told her she had left it mother's room at
041735 - the hosptial.
041737 -  ..
041738 - Robin later talked to Bob, and worked into the discussion ideas for
041739 - Patty to return to Nipomo in a week to visit mother again.  Robin did
041740 - not disclose her awareness of the dispute.  At this point, Bob said
041741 - something to the effect that he never wants to see Patty again,
041742 - because she was disrepectful telling Bob not to give away the ending
041743 - of a movie New Years eave, and then she wrote a nasty letter.  Bob
041744 - said that any apology from Patty could not be sincere, and so he
041745 - cannot forgive her, or words to that effect.
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